For most of my life, I didn’t know what having needs even meant.
I am the oldest daughter, the good girl, the one who held it all together, the “easy kid.” I overfunctioned, overthought, and over gave until burnout became my baseline.

I told myself I was fine.
But inside, I was exhausted, resentful, and secretly hoping someone—anyone—would see what I needed without me having to say it.
And at the same time? I was terrified of being seen as needy.

It wasn’t until therapy after my divorce—a relationship where I did everything myself—that I finally saw the pattern for what it was:
Performative strength to avoid the risk of being let down.

That unraveling changed everything.
I began expressing myself clearly, honestly, and without apology.
I learned to receive not just support in relationships but help in business, deep emotional care, and space for my own desires.

I stopped attracting emotionally unavailable partners and called in a man who adores me, supports me, and wants to take care of me, not because I’m broken, but because I finally let myself be held.

I stepped into my feminine leadership—not by pushing harder but by opening wider. I let myself be seen, supported, and nourished—and in that space, my life expanded in ways I used to only hold for clients.

Now? I help other women do the same. As a Women’s Alignment Coach, founder of SHE.FOR.WE, and creator of the In-Powered Communication Method™, I work with cycle-breaking, leadership-driven women who are done with overgiving, overdoing, and feeling like they have to earn their needs.

I help them break the pattern and ask for what they need—clearly, confidently, and in a way that feels like freedom.