Ladies, it takes two to tango. As much as we want to blame men for our problems in relationships, we have to do the uncomfortable look in the mirror to determine if, maybe, our stuff is getting in the way of a partnership. Learn what qualities could be getting in the way of long-term relationships…

…it is OK to mention what you’re looking for. “I am dating with the goal of finding a relationship. I’m not sure if that is you yet, but I’d love to figure it out and see!” If that scares him…well, girl, that’s your first sign he ISN’T for you.

Alright, so, what signs do you want to look for when you’re dating to know if they are partner-oriented?

An independent woman attracts an independent man.

A partnership goes beyond just a relationship. Many people often fall into the comforts of a relationship but get frustrated because they do not know how to share their life with someone. I’ll be honest: when I met my current partner, despite thinking I knew how to be a teammate- he STILL taught me a thing or two.